Honestly, we all know this part can be nerve-wracking. It's easiest to grab a coffee or lunch, get to know each other a bit, and then go home separately to process what we just experienced. I'm not opposed to extending t... read more >>
Honestly, we all know this part can be nerve-wracking. It's easiest to grab a coffee or lunch, get to know each other a bit, and then go home separately to process what we just experienced. I'm not opposed to extending the date if there is an automatic connection, but overall people need to be able to think things over and decide independently << less
The first date would be meeting and feeling the chemistry, as well as discussing and understanding what it is we both want and need from this type of relationship.
The best first date would probably be over a cup of coffee in a comfortable spot, simply getting to know the other person more: their dreams, their aspirations, their goals in life, etc. Some deeper and more intense topi... read more >>
The best first date would probably be over a cup of coffee in a comfortable spot, simply getting to know the other person more: their dreams, their aspirations, their goals in life, etc. Some deeper and more intense topics could potentially come out on a second date over a longer dinner, but a first date would be more ideal at a coffee shop with more light-hearted topics << less
Usually, coffee at a place where you are comfortable. There are several gorgeous spots in my home town of Kirkland, too. Just to get to know one another, lowers the "creepy factor" quite a bit! Other alternativ... read more >>
Usually, coffee at a place where you are comfortable. There are several gorgeous spots in my home town of Kirkland, too. Just to get to know one another, lowers the "creepy factor" quite a bit! Other alternatives include a walk, weather permitting. Most interesting was at the ferris wheel in Seattle: talk about a mutually captive audience! We did have a good chat, though. << less
